The Break-Up Poem

Memories by:  WillieBrew, Des Moines, Washington

I was only able to catch Tommy perform live once. But it was truly a memorable experience. By far the best live show that I have ever been to up to, and since that time. The gig was in Seattle in 1988 on Halloween night. I always regret not personally thanking Tommy for the wonderful influence his music, his drive, and his "In Your Face" attitude has had in my life.  So Tommy, if you do read this.......THANK YOU!

 

 

'I'm Not Your Man' was the best song that was ever written and put to music. At the time, I was going through this awful relationship and needed to end it. But I wanted to have it end in a very "impressive" or honorable way......You know, like Richard Gere in 'Officer and a Gentleman.' So, I sat down wrote all the lyrics to 'I'm Not Your Man' on a napkin and promptly walked it over to the soon to be 'ex'. She had no idea what was about to hit her! 

 

About a week after the 'Break up Poem' was delivered I saw her. I asked if she had a chance to read what I gave her, which she did and told me that she didn't think it was very nice. My reply was, "That's just the way I'm feeling", which was not a lie........."Seven days a week with you is more than I can handle."

 

In the spring of 1988, I was in the Army and stationed in Egypt. Nobody, at the time, knew who Tommy Conwell was. Ahhhh, but that was all to change in very short order! 

 

There were many nights of just sitting around drinking, playing cards and being stupid. Without fail at sometime during the course of the evening, (usually very early on in the festivities), I would throw in "Walkin' on the Water" into my well traveled and well played tape on the deck and hit the button. I don't think that I have ever played one cassette tape as much as that one. 

 

Half way through our tour of duty my then girlfriend (now my wife) sent me the 'Rumble' CD. WOW!!!!! By the time the unit was redeployed stateside, anybody and everybody was well aware as to who Tommy Conwell was.

 

My return to the States was special. I can still remember sitting in a mess hall in Fort Dix, New Jersey on our way back to Seattle. The first song I heard on the radio was 'If We Never Meet Again.'

I'm Not Your Man!

"BABY.... before I hang around this old moldy, mildewy, 'n' crappy scene holding hands wit' you There`s a whole list of things you`re gonna have to do.........JUMP off the Empire State in a paper sack Talking lovey-dovey to a camel, scare the hump off his back Get the Queen of England`s golden shoes Put `em on your feet and sing the St. Louis blues.